If You Love Me


By Pastor Michael Cofer
Sixth Sunday of Easter
John 14:15-21

As we approach the 500th anniversary of the reformation, it’s a good time to refocus on what makes us Lutheran. It’s not pipe organs or candles or steeples.  It’s not polka, it’s not lederhosen.  It is the absolute, unwavering belief that you are saved by God’s grace alone.

This is, without a doubt, the most beautiful, most liberating, most hope-filled doctrine any church could ever proclaim.  When the doctrine of God’s grace really penetrates your heart and dominates your mind, your love for Christ will grow and grow and grow.  It’s exactly as Jesus taught: He who is forgiven much, loves much.

So, consequently, we also put no small effort into demonstrating, recognizing, and confessing our sinfulness.  After all, what is grace for a person without sin?  We take it as a given that everyone is a sinner… That’s not being judgmental; it’s just being realistic. And it just means that everyone (ourselves included) starts in a position of needing God’s grace – grace which He freely gives.

These foundational beliefs – our sinfulness and God’s grace in Christ – are the core of Christianity… and the clear teaching about them is one of the great gifts that Lutheranism has given to the Christian Church.

And while these are the most precious truths I know, I’d be remiss if I led you to believe that it’s all you need to know.  Unfortunately, I think we might emphasize them so much that we think this is the whole story – a closed loop of sin, grace, sin again, and grace again.  In such a story, who loves whom?

To be honest, it’s fairly easy to talk about Jesus’ love.  It’s endless, it’s unconditional, it reaches the unlovable.  It is clearly demonstrated in Christ’s life, and even moreso in his death.  And as a poor, miserable sinner, I know how much I need that love and how much I don’t deserve it.

But it’s a mistake to think that we’re meant to have a one-way relationship with Jesus.  We aren’t meant to simply be loved by him, but we are meant to love him back.

You’ve probably heard the term “cheap grace,” used before, and even if not, you can guess that it’s not a good thing.  The most obvious version of “cheap grace,” is the person who says, “It’s okay if I sin; Jesus will forgive me.”  And sure, that is an example of taking grace for granted…. But I’d like to offer a bit of a broader picture of cheap grace: if your relationship with Jesus is all about what you get out of it, then you have been living on cheap grace.

Sadly, there are a lot of people that, whether they admit it or not, are looking for a one-way relationship with Jesus.  They want to be loved, they want to be fed, they want to be welcomed… but they give little or no thought to being the ones lovingfeeding, and welcoming. On the other hand, how many of those people would say they “love Jesus?”

Well intentioned churches just like ours have contributed to this problem.  For a long time we’ve tried to market Christianity as easy and accessible.  We’ve talked about Jesus’ love for us, and have left the topic of loving Jesus a little open-ended…

Last week we read Jesus say to us, “I’ll do anything you ask of me.”  And that sounds really good.  This week we read Jesus say, “If you love me, you’ll do what I ask of you.”  And that sounds… harsh? Not at all!  He’s just bringing into focus that a relationship with Him is a two-way street.  Loving and being loved.  Serving and being served.  Hearing, and being heard.

The reality is, you can’t separate Loving and Obeying Jesus. 1 Corinthians 13 teaches us that if you carry out Christ’s commands, but you don’t have love, you accomplish nothing. But here, in John 14, Jesus shows us that loving Jesus isn’t just about how we feel about Him.  Loving Jesus means obeying Him.

We aren’t talking about earning Jesus’ love for us. We’re talking about our love for Him. That doesn’t mean we should start obsessing about much or little we think we’re loving or obeying Jesus.  That won’t produce anything in us except pride or despair.  Rather, we have to start looking through Jesus’ eyes and responding to His heart to the people around us.

A curious thing happens when we do this… We begin to see Him more clearly, more regularly, more vividly.  We become more sensitive to what His Spirit is saying and doing in us.  “Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.”

Think about that for a minute…. Are you hungry for a deeper relationship with Jesus?   Do you want to know Jesus more and more?  Do you want to see Jesus manifest in your life?  The key is in obedience to Him.

Now, this is not an invitation to become rigid and law-oriented.  By no means is Jesus looking to make more Pharisees.  And that’s why He’s so clear that it’s His commandments that He wants us to obey.

Jesus spends an awful lot of teaching time in clearing away commandments that man added to God’s law.  Not that he was making obedience easier – in fact, He revealed that obedience to God is much harder than people thought.  Not only are your actions subject to judgment, so are your thoughts and feelings.  The righteousness that God desires is in the heart… but what is in the heart will show forth in actions.

So what are the commandments that Jesus gave?  Love God.  Love one another.  Consider others ahead of yourself. Forgive one another. Trust in God.  Follow Jesus.

That’s what a life of loving Jesus looks like.  It isn’t about “What Jesus can do for me?” It’s about “What can I do with all this love Jesus has given to me?”  And as we pursue the answer to that question, Jesus promises to be with us, to manifest in us, to guide us by His Spirit.

To become the church that God is calling us to be, we can’t just be grace consumers.  We are called to be the channels by which His love impacts the world.  We are called to love Jesus back.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

+ three = 6